July 24, 2014


Taylor Swift Gives Fan "Unrequited Love" Advice

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Taylor Swift on boys: it sounds dangerous, right? She's never ever getting back together; she realizes they're trouble. If there's one thing Tay Tay knows how to do, it's cut to the chase when it comes to speaking (or singing) her mind about relationships. Recently, Swift has been responding to fans via Instagram, and now she's moved on to giving love advice.

A fan named Hannah wrote to the pop star asking about a boy: "There's a guy Taylor, a guy who's sweet and charming and makes me laugh ... A guy who I have the biggest crush in the whole wide world on, and he'll never like me back. (And he has a girlfriend who he adores and she's pretty and has an amazing figure and is actually nice to me). @taylorswift can you give me some advice maybe. I love you."

Taylor response was perfect: "I think unrequited love is just as valid as any other kind. It's just as crushing and just as thrilling. No matter what happens in this situation, I want you to remember that what you are doing is selfless and beautiful and kind. You are loving someone purely because you love them, not because you think you'll ever have your affections reciprocated. You are admiring something for its beauty, without needing to own it. Feel good about being the kind of person who loves selflessly. I think someday you'll find someone who loves you in that exact same way."

The "22" singer is clearly wise beyond her years!